I don’t want to be told “oh you look so skinny!” I don’t want anyone to look at me and have the impression that they could pick me up with one arm, or break me if they hug me too hard.
I want to be strong. Not just kind of strong, but really strong. I want to have a real presence, a physicality that warns you about just the kind of woman I am. I want to be a bad-ass in the gym. I want to command respect.
Thinspiration? Eff that noise. Here’s my inspiration: